I just saw the first man in porn that I thought was cute, like in an attractive would-want-to-make-him-my-boyfriend kind of way. I couldn't find his name though, and then I thought, what the fuck would be the point of that, look him up and make him my boyfriend?? Jeez. The weird thing is I've never thought a porn actor is attractive in a would-date kind. They're just like, unrealistic, aren't they. Is that what men feel about the girls as well, or would you date the ones that look realistic? Me, bringing the real talk since 1990.